--- title: This Map Shows How Much Couples in Every State Spend on Weddings description: How much does a wedding cost? Couples spend $30,000 on average for their wedding, but our map shows prices vary widely from state to state. authors: - name: Mary Ellen Cagnassola role: Reporter url: https://money.com/author/mary-ellen-cagnassola/ bio: Mary Ellen (M.E.) Cagnassola is a former reporter at Money, where she covered Social Security, retirement, housing, and employment. Her work reflects her commitment to service and equity in consumer finance. education: Rutgers University, BA Journalism at_money_since: 2021 articles: 205 covers: - Lifestyle - Banking - Business - Career Advice - Credit - Credit Cards - Economy and Politics - Education - Housing - Identity Theft - Insurance - Investing - Loans - Mortgages - Personal Finance - Pets - Professional Services - Retirement - Shopping - Taxes former_staff: true editors: - name: Brad Tuttle role: Senior Editor url: https://money.com/author/brad-tuttle/ bio: Brad Tuttle is a former senior editor at Money with over 10 years’ experience covering a vast number of personal finance topics, including careers, cars, travel, budgeting, investing, insurance, credit cards, consumer psychology, real estate, banking, and shopping and deals. education: Columbia University School of Journalism, MS at_money_since: 2014 articles: 366 covers: - Lifestyle - Banking - Business - Career Advice - Credit - Credit Cards - Economy and Politics - Education - Health and Wellness - Housing - Identity Theft - Insurance - Investing - Loans - Mortgages - Personal Finance - Pets - Professional Services - Retirement - Shopping - Taxes - Technology social: - https://twitter.com/bradrtuttle - https://linkedin.com/in/brad-tuttle-834b225 former_staff: true published: '2023-05-30T18:26:19.000Z' modified: '2023-07-24T20:42:25.000Z' section: Lifestyle tags: - News word_count: 879 canonical: https://money.com/average-wedding-costs-map-by-state/ type: NewsArticle source: structured-blocks --- > **Disclosure:** We research all brands listed and may earn a fee from our partners. Research and financial considerations may influence how brands are displayed. Not all brands are included. [Learn more](https://money.com/page/disclaimer/). ![Photo collage of a bride and a groom sharing a kiss, next to two grooms smiling on their wedding day, with a United States map in the background](https://img.money.com/2023/05/News-Average-Wedding-Cost-States.jpg) Love is priceless — at least until you want to make it official and say “I do,” a milestone likely to rack up a bill in the tens of thousands. The average cost of a [wedding](https://money.com/topic/wedding-guide/) in the United States last year came out to roughly $30,000, according to [a survey](https://www.theknot.com/content/wedding-data-insights/real-weddings-study) of 12,000 couples across the country from wedding planning site The Knot. That’s $2,000 more than 2021, an increase The Knot attributes to [inflation](https://money.com/inflation-financial-hardship-gallup-poll/) coupled with high demand. Another estimate from research trade group [Wedding Report](https://wedding.report/index.cfm/action/wedding_statistics/view/market/id/00/idtype/s/location/united_states/) puts the average wedding expenditure for 2022 at $29,195, roughly the same amount. How much couples pay for their special day depends on a variety of factors (we’ll get to that in a minute), but location is a significant one. Having a wedding in a major city like San Francisco, New York~,~ or Chicago ranges from $47,000 to $60,000 on average, according to The Knot. Less expensive metropolitan areas, like Minneapolis or Houston, tend to edge lower, at $25,000 to $29,000. The map below shows how much weddings cost on average by state, excluding Alaska and Hawaii (engagement rings are not factored in). ![Color coded map of the average cost of a wedding in the United States](https://img.money.com/2023/05/Map-Average-Cost-Wedding.svg) ## States with the highest average weddings costs The Knot found that New Jersey tops the list as the most expensive state to get married. These are the 10 states where throwing a wedding costs the most, on average: 1. New Jersey ($51,000) 2. Massachusetts ($46,000) 3. New York ($46,000) 4. Rhode Island ($43,000) 5. Vermont ($43,000) 6. Washington, D.C. ($40,000) 7. Connecticut ($39,000) 8. Delaware ($39,000) 9. Maryland ($39,000) 10. California ($37,000) ## States with the lowest average wedding costs Couples who get married in Utah, Oklahoma and Kansas spend the least amount of money on average. These are the cheapest states to throw a wedding: 1. Utah ($16,000) 2. Oklahoma ($16,000) 3. Kansas ($16,000) 4. Wyoming ($18,000) 5. New Mexico ($18,000) 6. Montana ($18,000) 7. Oregon ($19,000) 8. Iowa ($19,000) 9. Idaho ($19,000) 10. North Dakota and South Dakota ($20,000) ## Start saving up for your big day with a High-Yield Savings Account ### High-Yield Savings Accounts allow you to increase your savings faster by offering higher-than-average interest rates. Click below to get started. [Open an Account Today](https://money.com/pr/x3064e252d87?ap_referrer=%2Faverage-wedding-costs-map-by-state%2F) ## Why are weddings so expensive? Aside from [inflation](https://money.com/inflation-rate-falls-whats-cheaper/) and high demand coming out of the pandemic, weddings have always tended to be expensive. [The Knot](https://www.theknot.com/content/average-wedding-cost) says the average cost of a wedding has hovered around $28,000 since 2017, of course with the exception of 2020, when many couples were forced to postpone. One of the primary reasons weddings cost so much money is simply because people are willing to spend it, even if it means going over budget. A [2016 survey](https://www.consumerreports.org/media-room/press-releases/2016/04/crs-secret-shoppers-find-that-some-vendors-charge-a-wedding-surcharge-for-products-and-services-new-report-reveals/) from the Consumer Reports National Research Center found that nearly two-thirds of the newlyweds who budgeted for their reception said they overspent by at least 20%. The once-in-a-lifetime mentality that many people have when planning a wedding can make them vulnerable to price discrimination. A [secret-shopper investigation](https://www.consumerreports.org/weddings/get-more-wedding-for-your-money/) by *Consumer Reports*, also conducted in 2016, comparing vendor costs for a wedding and and an identical 50th anniversary party found that vendors frequently upcharge for weddings, a phenomenon known as the “wedding markup.” The investigation uncovered that in 28% of cases, vendors quoted a higher price for weddings compared to the anniversary party. One of the biggest determining factors in how much a wedding will cost is the size of the guest list, according to The Knot. Couples who invited up to 50 guests spent an average of $14,400 on their wedding, while a guest list of 51 to 100 brought the average bill to about $24,600. Large wedding parties with more than 100 guests totaled $38,100 on average. These were the average prices for 16 common wedding expenses in 2022, according to The Knot. - Reception venue: $11,200 - Wedding photographer: $2,600 - Wedding planner: $1,900 - Live band: $3,900 - Reception DJ: $1,500 - Florist: $2,400 - Videographer: $2,100 - Wedding dress: $1,900 - Wedding cake: $510 - Catering: $75 per person - Transportation: $980 - Favors: $440 - Rehearsal dinner: $2,400 - Wedding invitations: $510 - Hairstylist: $130 - Makeup artist: $120 ## How much should you spend on a wedding gift? There isn’t a hard-and-fast rule for how much guests should spend on a wedding gift, but [etiquette](https://money.com/new-money-etiquette-rules/) says you should give the right amount to properly congratulate the newlyweds. Gifting money is a totally acceptable — and even preferred — way to show your appreciation for the bride and groom. [Wedding Wire](https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/money-as-wedding-gift), a global wedding marketplace, says that there isn’t a limit on how much you can give, but you shouldn’t give less than $50, regardless of size of the event. [The Knot](https://www.theknot.com/content/how-much-to-spend-on-wedding-gifts) found that guests spend about $160 on average for wedding gifts. However, what you spend should be appropriate to your relationship to the couple — and while you don’t have to cover the cost of your plate at the reception, it’s polite to consider what the couple may have paid to include you. Factors like whether you’re attending with a plus-one, the style of the wedding, your budget, and how well you know the couple can also guide you on how much to spend. For instance, while $75 may be a good amount for a coworker’s wedding, you will probably want to spend at least $100 on a close friend or family member, according to The Knot. You can use The Knot's [wedding gift calculator](https://www.theknot.com/content/how-much-to-spend-on-wedding-gifts) to help you determine the best amount to spend on a wedding gift. ## Save money the right way with a High-Yield Savings Account ### For an easy and effective way of saving money, a High-Yield Savings Account from Barclays is a good bet. Just click below and open your account today. 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