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![Full length body size view of man carrying new things clothing packages isolated over bright vivid shine vibrant magenta color background with dollar bills floating around](https://img.money.com/2023/05/News-Men-Spend-More.jpg)

The idea that women are shopaholics is an old stereotype — there’s even a lipstick index, a financial indicator that uses cosmetics sales to analyze the U.S. economic outlook.

[New research](https://www2.deloitte.com/us/en/insights/industry/retail-distribution/consumer-behavior-trends-state-of-the-consumer-tracker/splurge-spending-inflation-lipstick-index.html), however, suggests that a “bourbon barometer” may be just as good a way to measure consumer spending. It turns out that men are not only statistically just as likely to splurge as [women](https://money.com/changemakers/women-on-fire/), they actually spend more money on average when they treat themselves.

Deloitte Insights surveyed consumers in 23 countries about their spending habits, compiling a database of roughly 150,000 [splurge purchases](https://money.com/psychology-help-impulse-shopping/) with details on what respondents bought, how much they spent and why they made the purchase.

Deloitte’s data shows that today, splurging doesn’t always look like Cher Horowitz leaving the store with her arms stacked with [shopping](https://money.com/most-popular-clothing-brands-online-resale/) bags. Instead, picture a man treating himself to a steak dinner and a bottle of Maker’s Mark.

Times are hard — and everyone, regardless of gender, [wants a break](https://money.com/mental-health-correlates-shopping-splurging/) now and then.

"Whether it’s called the lipstick index or the bourbon barometer, one constant is that consumers generally relieve the pressures of frugality by occasionally treating themselves," the report reads.

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