--- title: How Mental Health, Birth Order and Even Movies Can Shape Your Money Habits description: Nearly every financial behavior you have has its roots in something else, and many of these subtle factors shape your money habits. authors: - name: Julia Glum role: Managing Editor url: https://money.com/author/julia-glum/ bio: Julia Glum joined Money in 2018 and specializes in covering financial trends that affect everyday Americans' wallets. She also writes Dollar Scholar, a weekly newsletter that teaches young adults how to navigate the messy world of money. education: University of Florida at_money_since: 2018 articles: 453 covers: - Personal Finance - Banking - Business - Career Advice - Credit - Credit Cards - Debt - Economy and Politics - Education - Health and Wellness - Housing - Identity Theft - Insurance - Investing - Lifestyle - Loans - Mortgages - Professional Services - Retirement - Shopping - Taxes - Technology also_seen_in: - Newsweek - International Business Times - CBS News - Good Morning America - WUSA9 - Pix 11 - The New York Times - Mashable - The Washington Post - CNBC - Politico social: - https://x.com/superjulia - https://www.linkedin.com/in/julia-glum editors: - name: Brad Tuttle role: Senior Editor url: https://money.com/author/brad-tuttle/ bio: Brad Tuttle is a former senior editor at Money with over 10 years’ experience covering a vast number of personal finance topics, including careers, cars, travel, budgeting, investing, insurance, credit cards, consumer psychology, real estate, banking, and shopping and deals. education: Columbia University School of Journalism, MS at_money_since: 2014 articles: 366 covers: - Personal Finance - Banking - Business - Career Advice - Credit - Credit Cards - Economy and Politics - Education - Health and Wellness - Housing - Identity Theft - Insurance - Investing - Lifestyle - Loans - Mortgages - Pets - Professional Services - Retirement - Shopping - Taxes - Technology social: - https://twitter.com/bradrtuttle - https://linkedin.com/in/brad-tuttle-834b225 former_staff: true published: '2024-05-10T14:10:54.000Z' section: Personal Finance tags: - News word_count: 683 canonical: https://money.com/factors-influence-money-habits/ type: NewsArticle source: structured-blocks --- > **Disclosure:** We research all brands listed and may earn a fee from our partners. Research and financial considerations may influence how brands are displayed. Not all brands are included. [Learn more](https://money.com/page/disclaimer/). ![Woman with hand on chin looking up](https://img.money.com/2024/05/News-Factors-Affecting-Money-Habits.jpg) Breaking news: There might finally be an answer to the age-old question "Why am I like this?" It turns out that nearly every financial behavior you have has its roots in something else, and many of these influences are so minor that you'd never recognize them. “We attempt to put money into a vacuum instead of looking at how it really intersects with every area of our life,” says [Ellyce Fulmore](https://queerdco.com/), a financial educator and author of *Keeping Finance Personal: Ditch the “Shoulds” and the Shame and Rewrite Your Money Story.* But in reality, all the pieces of our lives, experiences and identities “impact how we think about money, view money, spend money \[and\] the decisions that we make around money.” Fulmore, who owns a [financial literacy company](https://queerdco.com/) and has over 530,000 followers on TikTok, likes to describe this as a “money story,” though it's also been called a “money script.” Basically, our financial beliefs, behaviors and attitudes are formed in accordance with an almost-infinite number of outside factors. These can range from culture, class and trauma to personality, birth order and movies we watch. (Turns out we're a lot more impressionable than we'd like to think.) ## Start building your emergency fund by opening a High-Yield Savings Account from SoFi® ### Secure your financial future now by selecting your state today. [View Rates](https://money.com/pr/dd663f6404d0?ap_referrer=%2Ffactors-influence-money-habits%2F) Sometimes this cause-and-effect situation is obvious — if you witness a friend get laid off, you might make the intentional decision to beef up your [emergency fund](https://money.com/pr/o3a4f32fe650?ap_referrer=https%253A%252F%252Fmoney.com%252Ffactors-influence-money-habits%252F). But often it’s instinctual. Imagine you're standing in the grocery store, trying to choose between two boxes of cereal. Fulmore says your brain will make a decision based on everything you've experienced in your life thus far. Maybe when you were young, your parents taught you to only buy cereal on sale; maybe you know that one of the cereal manufacturers donates to a politician whose values you don’t support. All of this information is swirling around in your mind, she adds, and “you make those snap decisions without even necessarily consciously thinking about them.” It's not just nurture, either. Nature, too, can influence your habits. For example, [research](https://karenpine.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Sheconomics_PMS_BPS2009.pdf) has found there’s a correlation between menstrual cycle phases and how susceptible people are to impulsive spending. Mental health can be a major determinant of how you handle money, as well. Fulmore says folks who struggle with executive function (the mental skills that help you plan and meet goals) may have trouble sticking to a budget, while those who are wired to seek dopamine (a neurotransmitter and hormone linked to feelings of pleasure) may be more likely to splurge. A person's anxiety might lead them to book the first hotel they find while vacation planning, even if it’s more expensive than they'd like, because they have an underlying fear of not being able to get a room later. The rub is that because these factors are so easy to overlook, they’re often difficult to address. It’s a lot simpler to overcome financial challenges when the solution is black and white. Fulmore talks about how when she was in college, she was always running late for class, so she ended up buying takeout and coffee most days. But if she’d asked a financial planner for advice on how to remedy the overspending, they’d likely say she should pack lunch and make coffee at home. That wasn’t the problem, though: “The issue for me was time management stemming from my undiagnosed ADHD, not the finances,” she says. To give yourself the best shot at mitigating the effects of outside factors on your financial behaviors, you first need to take a step back and recognize what’s going on. 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